Sometimes, i think we are all imperfect human beings.
Human want more control over their circumstances because of fear. They make decision based on the best info gather. Then only realise missed out something. Boom, they hit the wall. Facing consequences of their past decision.
I think in life is not about falling, it's more about stand back up after you fall. Learn and make sure in the future it won't cause another fall.
Learn more about this world. Learn thru experiencing failures and stand back up.
This is when forgiveness kicks in.
Forgiving is not about others. It's about you. Yes, it's only you.
Forgiving means feeling resent about a certain past event. It creates blames and fault plus guiltiness. None of these energies are positive.
How to forgive and stop letting your past destroying your future?
1. Thru Positive Affirmation
Write 5 Affirmation (Suggestion Below )
Every situation brings a gift to me
I Choose to live in joy, posibilities and understand
I have the power to forgive
My past not equals to my future.
I deserve a fulfilling happy life with no regrets.
2. Total Truth Process ( Sentence Completion ) ( Anger=> Love/Agreement. )
Anger
I’m angry that you…..
I Hated when you….
I got really mad when….
I Resent that….
Hurt
My feeling were hurt when….
I’m really sad when….
I feel disappointed about….
Fear
I afraid that….
I’m scared because I think….
I get afraid of you when…..
Responsibility
I’m sorry that i…..
Forgive me for….
I know that my part was….
I didn’t mean to….
Understanding
I understand that you….
What I know is…
Wants
What I really want is….
I hope that….
Forgiveness/love and appreciation.
I forgive you for….
I appreciate you for….
You’re a good friend because….
what I love about you is….
Agreement
I agreed to….
From now on I will….
I personally feel that it's crucial for human to learn true forgiveness or else we all won't move on. Easy to say, hard to do. I know, we can if we want to.
It's just ignorance that cause us failures. Find out more about forgiveness and stop ruining your life ;)
